1.
We spent those days
at a crossing place in time,
and only we
knew what could be,
and what was left
behind.
The prairie wheat blew
gold and soft
on Illinois-planted fields of fall.
Then later on, the whitened snow
lay gentler still
on a campus
where we lived and laughed,
and lied.
2.
Who was I then?
Or any of us?
Sometimes, I can’t tell, even now,
because I only
thought I knew.
I played the role
and joined approved-of crowds,
but inside
stayed alone.
I met so many folks there,
those who helped me grow
and maybe a few
I’m better off
forgetting.
But I remember them all,
wondering
what might have been
if I had changed
to whom they wanted.
Because I never could.
At length,
with silent disappointment,
I left.
Yet the years betrayed
those heartland days.
They all stayed
stored away within.
Vagrant thoughts still recollect
the many tears and smiles.
I see faces I knew,
girls who dreamed
of husbands to be
and guys
who thought they would win
the world.
3.
Remembrances of northern seasons
stay with me most.
Stark, flat-plain winter nights
blew in hard-frozen,
dark and taught enough
to ring like high-pitched strings
before my face.
Ice looked made
of shattered glass
and stayed
for seeming eons,
becoming iron-earth’s crusted chrysalis.
Pied and withered leaves
quietly dried
and later rustled somber over
starting classes in September.
Flowery, swamp-smelling spring,
and then muggy,
summer stormy months,
all marched in time.
Their onrushing tide
fast-raced me
on their whited waves,
forward to change.
4.
Teachers told us
to look for truth,
but my verity, to them,
was gross disgrace.
Yet, during those days,
I found a better place.
I’ll tell you of it now,
if only as a
whisper:
If a grain of wheat fall
into a furrow’s crevice,
it first must wither
and sleep in earth.
Before the new and infant seed
can come alive,
the older shell
must pass away.
5.
On a glory-hued, autumnal day,
I left my grave.
The price of rising
is having to die.
But by that end,
a newness steals
upon your self, as morning heals
the darker place
of night.
“How could it be wrong,” he asked,
“for a man to love another man?”
His question ripped away
a brittle husk
drawn close about my life.
Those words exploded, pinecone-like,
as a forest fire burns off
scarred deadwood trees.
Those brittle syllables,
covered me with ashes.
Years later on,
I, a pipping Phoenix,
crawled from ruins,
remembering those yesterdays,
to make myself
anew.
6.
So, in looking back,
I stopped to grieve a moment brief,
and now
I never turn at all.
Still gazing ahead,
I only let myself recall
the icy morning
I woke remade.
Upon that dawn, my soul sprang up
like winter wheat,
treasured still today
and harvested
in my heart.
December 1995: For Wheaton College’s many Gay/Lesbian Alumni – who we were, are and yet shall be.